Got to be birds flying higher

I gotta agree with you there. I imagine someone who uses the tantrum technique at work will find themselves eating alone in the lunchroom! Unfortunately the anonymity of our society makes throwing a tantrum totally OK in front of others, especially those that deal with the public :S At the library there was a special numerical code for violent/problem patrons that popped up when you wanded their card. Those self-serve checkouts can be a good thing!