I guess my Genealogy Week isn't over just like this cold isn't over. The vital stats/provincial archives got back to me and I discovered that my great-grandmother was only married for two weeks before her new husband contracted some sort of virus and died. He's documented in a big local history book called
Pride in Progress. The entry is so brief--he was born, worked on a farm, married my great-grandmother, died and is buried in St. Michael's.
Like the other marriage certificate, this one is mentioned on Ancestry, but my great-grandmother's last name was so mangled that never in a million years would I know it was the same person.
I only knew my great-grandmother and grandmother when they were old; it's so hard to imagine them as excited young women with their first husbands. But I think I can imagine, sometimes. Who would I be if he had lived? Would I be here? So many existential questions :-)
I also spent lunch looking up on
British Columbia death certificates which are freely available online up to a certain year. It feels a little ghoulish, but they're so full of handy information like birth date, death date, location, spouse, form of burial, etc. There are some relatives I'll never find on Find A Grave because they were cremated. I won't upload the death certificates to Ancestry; that just seems like a bit much, but I did discover that one of my grandfather's brothers and my grand-great aunt's family both lived in Vernon about the same time. Wouldn't it be funny if the two groups interacted? The place where my great-uncle died is still standing as well and it's so...weird...but interesting at the same time.
Granny loved collecting obituaries and at the time I thought it was a little weird, but now I realize just like me, she was trying to organize her family tree :-)